Friday, July 11, 2008

Taking my "annual leave"

Since Joash's birth, I've never left his side for more than the few of hours during couple time with Joshua which happens on an average of once a fortnight. Joash is becoming like an extension of my own body! I also spent about 80% of the time taking care of him alone without anyone else's help.

Last weekend, Joshua (aka my boss) gave me a day off and completely took over the care of our son. He has never taken care of baby without my help prior to this. But I had great confidence in him since I have already passed on all my skills to him over the past 8 months. 我已经把所有的招数都传授给他了!Bwahahahaha!!!

It was a much welcomed rest as I could suddenly remember how it was like before Joash arrived. I left the house on Saturday night to meet Joash's Godma (aka my biker chick best friend). I rode pillion on her motorbike to East Coast Park where she treated me to a nice cold cup of chamomile tea, after which I stayed over at her place. I must really be very "suaku" nowadays cos I could hardly recognize the ECP! It has evolved into some place so hip...

The next day, we went for a hearty breakfast at Ya Kun before heading off to church. That was the first time I had worshiped in the main sanctuary as I have always been in the baby room. It was totally awesome as I could give my full attention to God as opposed to constantly keeping an eye on Joash and attending to him once in a while during service.

After that, I joined my churchmate and her family for lunch. Also for the first time, I could simply help somebody else with their kid instead of having my hands almost full with my own kid. When they dropped me off at Lot 1, I treated myself to a really nice pedicure and even allowed myself to be persuaded into a package deal! (Haha... That doesn't happen very often, as my friends would know! :P) Then, a friend from university treated me to the movie "21" and a sumptuous dinner at Sakae Teppanyaki. The movie was much better than I thought and I tasted foie gras (goose liver) for the first time in my life! It tasted marvelous!

I returned home satisfied and recharged on Sunday night. I didn't miss Joash nor he me as much as I worried. Furthermore, Joshua totally rose up to the occasion and did a terrific job handling everything alone: packing baby's bag, carrying him using the sarong sling, bringing him to church, reading the bible to him, making his cereal+puree, feeding him, bathing him and putting him to bed. I'm so proud of my husband! *muack*

Now that I have enjoyed my one-day annual leave, I am fueled to go on for the next 8 months... Nahhh... Just kidding. :) I definitely wouldn't mind doing this more often. *hint hint*

A pic of my pedicure to remind me of that relaxing day. Aaahhhhh~~~~

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